“And the law of kindness is on her tongue.” Proverbs "31":26
In joining two people together as husband and wife God has arranged that there should be subjection and love in the family. He has not asked the husband and wife to find and correct each other’s faults. He has not set up husbands to be instructors to their wives or wives to be teachers to their husbands. A husband need not change his wife or a wife her husband. Whatever the manner of person you marry you must expect to live with that for life. Married people should learn to know when to close their eyes. They should learn to love and not try to correct.<br/><br/>As Christians we must learn to deny ourselves. To deny oneself means to accommodate oneself to others. Family life requires discipline. It means learning to be willing to lay aside your own opinion in giving due consideration to the views of others.